Oral sex is pretty much a favourite thing for every man out there to enjoy. There is nothing hotter than seeing your sexy partner sink to their knees, sliding your cock out of your pants and taking it into their mouth to suck on it. The feeling of their mouth tightening around you, and the way their head bobs up and down your length means that it takes a great deal of willpower to resist the urge to blow your load right then and there.
While most people in the world would be more than happy to get a blowjob, there are actually a lot of people out there who hate giving them. There are so many different factors for this, but the main reason for it is a lack of preparation from the guy who wants to get the blowjob. That’s right, you can’t just whip it out and leave it at that. There are some things that you need to do first, and here on the Escort Scotland blog we take a look at the steps you need to take to properly prepare your cock for a blowjob.
Talking about it
Okay, so you want to get a really intense and great blowjob. You might have decided that is what is going to happen, but it isn’t as simple as that. There are so many other factors to consider, and one of them is the condition of your cock.
You might look down and be wondering why that is important, and you might assume that we mean the size or the girth… but that isn’t the case here. Instead, we are talking about your foreskin, and whether it might make things a little difficult for the person sinking to their knees.
There are a lot of men out there who struggle with phimosis. Phimosis, for those who don’t understand, is when the foreskin on your cock is too tight, which makes it difficult and, a lot of the time, pretty much impossible to pull back.
It actually makes things like blowjobs and sex quite painful if your partner doesn’t know how to deal with it, so you are best to explain it to them. They might know the proper way to treat your cock when you struggle with it, but it is still best to tell them just in case they haven’t encountered it before.
Keeping it clean!
This is one of the biggest problems that people face. For whatever reason, a ridiculously high number of men believe that cleaning their cock consists of giving it a shake after they’ve taken a piss, but we probably don’t need to tell you that this isn’t enough.
If you won’t go down on a woman without her giving her pussy a good clean and trimming back the hairs, don’t expect them to suck your cock without tidying up first.
Start by jumping into the shower. Get the water nice and warm and get some soap. Lather up and focus on your dick. Clean every single inch of it, from your balls to the very tip of your head, and back again. Roll back the foreskin, if you can, to clean underneath it and rinse with plenty of water. Once you’ve done that, check it again. The last thing that you want is to have some residue on your cock that you didn’t spot that your partner finds with their mouth. Yuck!
A problem that a lot of men complain about when they are giving a woman oral sex is that their pubic hair gets in the way. Some will make a big fuss over pulling the hairs from between their teeth, but this is just rude. However, if you really want to impress her, you might want to consider trimming back the hairs or getting rid of them all together. If you choose to go bald, do it a day or two before you see them, otherwise you might still be a little tender. Getting rid of the hair means she won’t have to stop mid-action to take one out of her mouth, and it will make your cock look so much bigger.
OWO or covered oral?
There might be nothing quite like a woman’s wet lips wrapping around your cock, but for safety reasons a lot will want to wrap your dick in a condom first. You might think that it isn’t as fun, but they have good reasons for doing it.
A huge number of STIs, such as chlamydia, gonorrhoea, and syphilis, can actually be passed on and caught through oral sex, and the last thing you want from a nice and sloppy blowjob is to later get told that you have caught something.
If you aren’t convinced that you are both clean, it is better to opt for a condom. Sure, it might not feel as good to you, but it is better than catching an STI. However, your partner might be clean at their last check, and you may be too, so if you want to go for OWO, make sure they are up for it. It is all down to personal preference, and getting a covered blowjob is much better than not getting one at all!
Now, for the finale a lot of people like to end in a big way. You might not want to finish in their mouth or in the condom, so talk to your partner about where you want to unload your jizz. You might find that the idea of your cum hitting their chest as their hand pumps up and down on your cock is a huge turn on for them, so do what makes you both happy.
Of course, the big things to remember about preparing for oral sex are that you need to keep it clean and let them know exactly what it is you need. It will make the whole experience much more pleasant!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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