When we go down the list of male fantasies, it is safe to say that threesomes will be at the top of most lists. They are seen in porn, and the popularity of those searches reflect the male love of the sexual escapade.
The only thing that matches our love of them is the fact that most of us will find them difficult to actually make it happen. Every guy I know, including myself, would find ourselves single if we asked our partners to bring another woman into the bedroom. Therefore it is something that most of us would only ever get by visiting duo escorts on our site.
The problem when you get there is that we have had very little practice doing them. People have spoken about getting there, and despite the fantasy being incredible, they have no idea what they are doing, and consequently is a disappointment.
This is why today we are going to look at the common mistakes that are made during threesomes. They can apply to escorts, or your homelife if you are lucky enough to be in a relationship where this is allowed.
Here we go
1) Not Setting Ground Rules
Yes, you have two women in your bed but that doesn’t mean that they are both willing to do the same things. Porn has taught us that that you can throw the ladies around and do whatever. This couldn’t be further from the truth.
Instead it is a much better idea to ask beforehand what both will do. You then know the boundaries.
2) Drinking Too Much
It will of course be a nerve-wracking experience to have sex with two women at a time. This can lead to some numbing that with alcohol, which has a really negative affect on what you are doing. It can create poor ‘performance’, as well as blur boundaries about what is acceptable.
Once again, this isn’t a porn movie, so don’t act like it is.
3) Paying More Attention To One and Not The Other
In many threesomes, it is a case of a third person being brought into the relationship. The guy may well feel extra excited about having sex with a new person so will concentrate on her. This will leave the other person feeling left out which will totally ruin the experience for them. Instead of letting them feel like an ornament, get them involved.
4) Not Researching Positions
Many men get to the threesome and then haven’t got a clue what they are doing there. They just look at the two women and think ‘well, what the fuck am I going to do now?’. As the old saying goes ‘fail to prepare, prepare to fail’.
This is why you need to look for threesome positions, so once you get into bed it becomes simpler. My colleague Lara Mills did a fantastic piece on positions you can use. You won’t find better.
5) Expecting it To Last Too Long
We have all see the porn films where the guy goes forever, whilst taking numerous turns with both women. However, as we should know, porn is spliced up to create a longer video.
Here comes the problem; if you are banging away at one of the girls for five minutes there is a good chance you will orgasm and the other will just be left there thinking ‘WTF?’.
Go slowly, and stop yourself before you get too close to orgasm. After you have calmed down a bit, you can go again. That way you can make things last longer, and you can get the full enjoyment of both ladies.
We hope this helped. It isn’t easy having a threesome, be it as home or with escorts. If you get to fulfil this fantasy, something many of us may never do, we want you to get the most out of it.
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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