We have spent a long time here pointing out (rightly) that it is far easier to get a woman to orgasm with oral sex. That is why we have given so many great oral sex tips. However, there are few better feelings in life than getting a woman to orgasm through full sex. Still, as we know, for many women this can be quite difficult.
Learning About The Vagina
So what is the best position for women to orgasm during sex? Well there will be those who have their own ideas, but according to Two sexperts, Dr Nina Brochmann and Ellen Støkken Dahl in their new book ‘The Wonder Down Under’ there is in fact a way of having sex which will almost guarantee on orgasm for the lady.
It is all about their belief that the clitoris has been completely misunderstood.
“We’ve been brought up to believe the clitoris, the site of all female sexual pleasure, is roughly the size of a raisin.
“But the truth is this little button is just the tip of an iceberg, a small part of a large and extraordinarily sensitive organ that extends deep into a woman’s pelvis.”
This all leads to the position that they think couples should use to get the woman off. It is called the “CAT” position.
Coital sexual alignment (CAT) really manages to spice up the missionary position, which as we know can be a bit bloody boring.
Instead of resting on his hands, the guy should rest on his forearms and keep his body touching the woman.
Then instead of thrusting in and out, he should slide his body up and down, whilst always remaining in contact with the lady.
Get Fit, Guys
This is supposed to get the woman to be the big O. However, there is obviously going to be a problem with guys who are a bit heavy. You don’t need me to tell you that a fat boy on top of the lady will have her wondering how to breath, not how to have an orgasm.
This should certainly act as a great motivation for guys out there to lose a bit of weight. What all guys want is for the lady to be satisfied, so this is a good thing to try.
As sex becomes less ‘naughty’ we are discovering more and more about people’s anatomy. If we have been getting the clitoris wrong all this time, just think of the fun times that could be ahead!
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
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