Penetrative sex feels great. However, sometimes it just isn’t enough. A large number of women find that they struggle to reach orgasm through penetration alone, which can leave them feeling unsatisfied. A clitoral orgasm is often the way to go to make everyone happy.
The problem is finding the perfect way to stimulate their clit during sex to make them feel amazing. You want to give them a clitoral orgasm in the best way possible, so here are a few suggestions for you.
Choose the right position
Sometimes there isn’t a lot that you have to do during sex in order to stimulate your partner’s clit. Even something as simple as getting the right position can make a huge difference. One of the most popular to try for a clitoral orgasm during sex is the cowgirl or girl on top position.
With a pillow under your ass, your body will be perfectly alignment for her. As she rides you, her clit can rub against your pubis, which will lead to one hell of an intense orgasm.
What is best about this is that she will be in complete control, and so the stimulation will be perfect. She can speed up if she wants to get to orgasm quicker, or she can slow down to really tease herself. It’ll be great to see what she does and you’ll find that you learn a lot from her.
Keep your hand in place
Anyone having difficulty being positioned perfectly for your partner’s clit to rub against you as you fuck will need to try something else. Often this means that you need to get your hand involved. But what is the best way to do that?
A good method many use it to cup the top of their partner’s leg, with their thumb against the clit. It is easy to do and means that, no matter what position you are in, you’ll be able to rub at their clit as you have sex.
Whether your partner is on top of you or you are in control, using your hand in this way is ideal. You’ll be able to stimulate them easily. Sometimes you won’t even need to more your hand, as the rhythm of your bodies can do the hard work for you.
Let her do the work
Of course, if you really want to give her a clitoral orgasm during sex, you’ll hand control over to her. This means that you should make it clear that you want her to feel good during sex, and so she can touch herself however she wants to.
Watch the way that she moves to learn something. Many times, she’ll decide to reach for her clit as you have sex. She’ll want to feel good, and the clit is often the best way for it.
This is preferable to trying to stimulate her yourself. You might have difficulty keeping contact with her clit, but she won’t. She’ll be able to keep rubbing at her body as you fuck, leading to one hell of an orgasm for her!
Use a toy
Anyone eager to really amp it up might want to consider using a sex toy. Sex toys are fantastic ways to enhance sex, making it feel so much better. Plus, they have a variety of different uses, ensuring both you and your partner can be satisfied.
You might love the idea of slowly teasing her with a vibrator as you have sex. The vibrations will feel incredible to you both, but with them concentrated on her clit, she’s bound to have a clitoral orgasm in no time.
Having difficulty holding it in the perfect spot? Again, you could let her take control. It’ll be amazing for you to watch and ensure that she is pleasured in the right way.
Giving an amazing clitoral orgasm
I’m one of those women who struggles to reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone. It has happened, but a lot of the time it is a clitoral orgasm which gives me the pleasure I’ve been craving. The above techniques have worked for me, so why not try them for yourself?
You could also share your top tips by leaving a comment in the box below. How would you do it?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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